How do you respond when a person tells you to come to visit him/her? There are several possible responses a person can think of to this expression.
When you are asked to visit, you get to choose whether you want to honor the request or not.
When you are asked to visit, you also get to decide whether you are just unwilling to honor the request or unable to do it.
35 Different ways to reply to ‘Come Visit Me’
- What time?
- Of course!
- I was waiting for you to ask.
- Right away.
- I would love to.
- When should I come around?
- Thank you.
- I will find the time for that.
- I can’t wait to see your place.
- I’m coming over now.
- Expect me soon
- Why?
- What do you have to offer?
- Let’s meet elsewhere.
- I’m not sure I want that.
- Is there any issue?
- Is it important?
- What should I wear?
- I don’t know your place
- I can’t come.
- Some other time, please.
- How about you come visit me?
- How about tomorrow?
- I am very busy now.
- I can’t trust you.
- I’m not comfortable with that
- I am honestly tired.
- Leave the door open. I’m storming in.
- Prepare some food.
- Are you sure?
- I’d have to kill my boss.
- There’s no time for that.
- Is the weekend fine?
- I was going to show up by surprise.
- Since you’re begging, I will.
What time?
When a person tells you to come to visit him/her, you can show that you are interested in coming by asking what time the person wants you to come over.
While this response shows that you may be willing to come, you still get to say whether you will show up at the person’s place or not. However, knowing what time you are expected will help you know if you can show up or not.
Of course!
When a person tells you to come to visit him/her, you can simply say Of course. However, this implies that you will be visiting the person.
Of course, in this context, sounds like a show of excitement. You can use this when there is a purpose for your visit to the person’s place. It implies that the visit is necessary and you would do it even if the person did not ask.
I was waiting for you to ask
When a person tells you to come to visit him/her, you can say this. This means that you are more than willing to honor the request since it is your desire to do the same thing, even without the request.
You can use this to show enthusiasm to visit a person. It can be used when referring to a person that is admired.
Right away
When a person tells you to come to visit him/her, you can respond with this. This response makes the expression sound more like an order than a request.
This expression will most likely be used when it is necessary for you to visit a particular person. This expression has a string of urgency attached to it which has to be evident in the situation it is used in.
I would love to
When a person tells you to come to visit him/her, you can respond by saying this. This does not state whether you will show up or not, however.
If it is someone you admire and have no issues with visiting, you can only use this expression to create suspense. Then after a few seconds, you can say when you will show up.
When should I come around?
When a person tells you to come to visit him/her, you can respond by asking what time the person wants you to come around.
It does not say whether you will visit the person or not but it gives the person the hope that you will show up. It can also be used to buy time to think of a perfect excuse not to show up.
Thank you
When a person tells you to come to visit him/her, it can be based on your request, though unlikely. If it is based on your request to visit the person, you can simply thank the person before asking for what time to show up.
I will find the time for that
When a person tells you to come to visit him/her, you can respond by saying this. This shows that you are not rejecting the idea of visiting the person who has invited you but it also shows that you may not be able to show up at just any time, even without giving reasons.
When you respond with this, it gives a tiny hope that you will visit soon.
I can’t wait to see your place
When a person tells you to come to visit him/her, you can reply to it with this expression. This should only be used as a positive response unless you are being sarcastic.
This expression implies that you like the idea of visiting the person and you are excited about it. It convinces the person that you will visit the person as soon as possible.
I’m coming over now
When a person tells you to come to visit him/her, you can respond with this expression. This sounds like you have no better thing to do with your life but it actually refers to the reason for your visit.
When you are visiting for a reason or a purpose, you can use this response. It shows how urgent the visit is.
Expect me soon
When a person tells you to visit him/her, you can also say this. This implies that you will show up at the person’s place as soon as possible. It can mean that you are close to the person or you are going to see the person for an urgent reason.
You should only use this if you plan to show up and if you are working toward visiting the person at the moment.
Why?
When a person asks you to visit him/her, you can always ask why. It is normal to ask this question when you don’t feel safe around a particular person.
The responses suggested above refer to a person’s interest and unwillingness to pay a visit to the person requesting. However, it is important to know why the visit has been requested for.
What do you have to offer?
When a person asks you to visit him/her, you can ask this question. This is a casual question that does not exactly have a correct answer. It should only be used in casual situations.
You can ask this question as a joke before saying yes or no to the request.
Let’s meet Elsewhere
When a person asks you to visit him/her, you can say this. It is normal to feel unsafe in the house of a person so it should be understood if you don’t want to go to a person’s house.
Your unwillingness to visit can be for several reasons. You can state your reason and suggest where you would like to meet with this person.
I’m not sure I want that
When a person asks you to visit him/her, you can say this. This implies that you may not be willing to visit the person that is requesting. This does not have excuses. Rather, it’s focused on what you want.
If you do not feel safe about going to a person’s house, you can say this and suggest a different place to meet.
Is there any issue?
When a person asks you to visit him/her, you can ask if there is any issue. This question fits in official situations only.
When the request comes from someone you are not very close to or someone you only talk business with, you can ask this question to know why you are visiting.
Is it important?
When a person says you should visit him/her, you can respond with this question. This asks whether the visit is necessary.
With this question, you get to know why the person wants you to visit. Asides from that, it helps you to cook up an excuse in a way that is more believable. This question makes it seem like you are busy and do not want to honor unimportant meetings.
What should I wear?
When a person says you should visit him/her, you can ask this question. This question is mostly used in outings so it will sound funny if you use it in this conversation.
You can always say this, however, before answering whether you will be visiting the person or not.
I don’t know your place
When a person asks you to visit him/her, you can respond with this statement. This implies that you cannot visit the person because you do not know where he/she lives currently. You have to be honest with this excuse.
If it is someone who knows that you are aware of his/her address, you may be getting a minor reaction.
I can’t come
When a person tells you to visit him/her, you can say this. Whenever a request is made to you, you always get to choose whether it’s a yes or a no
By saying this, you are telling the person that you cannot visit. You can give an excuse and you can choose not to say anything about it.
Some other time, please
When a person asks you to visit him/her, you can say this. It shows that you are not available to visit the person at the moment but you would love to honor the request at a later date.
This does not state whether you are saying No out of unwillingness or a busy schedule.
How about you come visit me?
When a person asks you to visit him/her, you can choose to suggest where else to meet if you are not comfortable with going to his/her house. You can also suggest that the person visits you as long as it is not an official version.
How about tomorrow?
When a person asks you to visit him/her, you can ask this question to show agreement. By asking this question, you are saying that you will like to visit the person the next day and the person gets to choose.
I am very busy now
When a person asks you to visit him/her, you can respond with this to show that you can’t visit the person at the moment you are discussing.
You can go ahead to suggest a convenient time.
I can’t trust you
When a person asks you to come over and you don’t trust him/her, you can simply say it to the person. This gives him/her a chance to prove trustworthiness to you.
I’m not comfortable with that
When a person says you should visit him/her, you can express your dislike towards the idea. If you are cool with paying a visit, you don’t have to say this.
However, if you are not comfortable with it, you can say so.
I am honestly tired
When a person says you should visit him/her, this is one of the excuses you can give to say No. You may also be genuinely tired.
This response implies that the person has requested your presence immediately and you are very tired at the moment.
Leave the door open. I’m storming in
When a person asks you to visit him/her, this is one of the casual responses you can give.
It implies that you are going over to the person’s place immediately.
Prepare some food
When a person asks you to visit, this is one of the positive responses you can give.
This response implies that you will be visiting but you want the person to prepare some food.
Are you sure?
When a person asks you to visit and you think the person may suffer risks due to that, you can ask this question.
Several cases may require this question but you will know when you have to ask.
I’d have to kill my boss
When a person asks you to come over, this is a funny but negative response you can give. It implies that you have a job that stands in the way of you taking time to visit the person.
There’s no time for that
When a person asks you to come over, you can say this if you are too busy to honor the invitation.
Is the weekend fine?
This implies that no time was given for you to come over but you would like to come over by the weekend. If you will be available at another time, you may state it.
Whatever time you are stating, this implies that you will be visiting by then.
I was going to show up by surprise
This implies that you were considering visiting the person. It may not be true but it makes the moment amusing. It implies that you will visit the person.
You can go ahead and tease the person by saying No after saying this but this response means you will show up.
Since you’re begging, I will
This implies that you will visit the person as requested. The response is funny and should only be used in casual situations.